Wanting More?

I love reading other people's blogs, but in some small sense, I feel as though I'm intruding...intruding into their personal thoughts, feelings, emotions and most of all, their personal space...

I haven't been to bed all night, I just could not sleep...no, Adderall XR doesn't help in that area either but, its just been one of those days....

I haven't been off work for this long in months and I've been off technically since Friday...so I'm kinda winding down from this non-working "High"...

Anyways, back to the topic of "wanting more"...I read it on a fellow bloggers page and it got me to thinkin'...

yeah, I know...here she goes...

Wanting more...Its always a good thing to want more, set your sights higher, have ambitions and goals and steadily work towards them while taking small amounts of relaxing breaks to regroup, re-focus and re-energize...

I've always wanted more...my whole life, more money, more square footage, more bathroom space, more time...that's a biggie for me, I always need more time..

But did you ever notice that by wanting more, sometimes, you end up with less?

Or you end up taking steps in the opposite direction only having to work harder to get farther ahead..I did that when I got married the first time, I took steps backwards totalling 9 years backwards...I had to start all over again from scratch to define exactly what I thought I wanted to become while bringing some kids with me through that big nasty snow-storm...

Most people say "1 step forward, 2 steps back" but in my case, it was 1/2 step forward 6 steps back, going forward again with 40 more pounds on my back....

Its not really a secret that I had my first kid at 16, so there I was, barely getting through the teenage years with a child attached at the hip..I never was able to complete my "formal" education because I had to start over with the alphabet and potty-training my daughter...I tried to hang in there as long as I could, my parents helped a great deal by keeping her while I went to school and worked full-time..

Back then, there was no help for people like me, the majority of it was cold, hard criticism..."how could you do that, what will people think, how do you intend to support this child, blah blah blah"...at least that's what I heard...

My sex-education lecture from my mother was, "Don't let yourself get backed into a corner you can't get out of!"...okay...whatever that is???

Anyways, that's neither here nor there, but I had to switch my focus from that point on, because who in their right mind would allow someone like me into a college dorm? That's the question my assistant principle asked me in the 10th grade...

Good Bye Medical School, hello mommy! So, I married (not the child's father) a man that appeared to have all his *&^% straight! Don't ever judge based on appearances because I blew that one!

From the time I was 12, I wanted to be in medicine...at that time though, I wanted to be Quincy ME! When I was 14, I decided I wanted to be a neurosurgeon...I soaked up all the biology I could...I was great at math, I was an A student, I was ready...

Then baby came along...I wasn't ready for that, but ready or not, here she comes!

Much later, after 4 kids, I still knew I wanted to be in medicine..but, nursing was not for me...To be a nurse, one should be prepared to learn everything about everything..and if they can't, they shouldn't be a nurse unless the plan is to specialize in some area...but..before they can do that, they still have to know a little about a lot...

I wanted to know a lot about a little in a sense...

Being the "neurotic davinci" that I am, I know I am an artist, I just don't know what kind...so, I knew I had to figure out one thing I could be great at...

The uh..."jack of all trades, master of none" seemed to fit, but I want to grab one thing, and just shine it up!

I have no memory for "a lot" of things, I have to pick one thing, and memorize it, study it over and over and over until it finally clicks!! Then I have to learn how to apply it...

I am that person who can take it this week and abandon it next week...I want something so badly, then, when I get it, I play with it a while, then it disappears and I never think of it again...

That's a horrible trait to have!! I hate that trait about me most..

I like to write stuff, but I'm not good with words and I'm a very simple person..
to be an effective writer, one has to talk it up, sell it, make it look great! I can't do that, I'm plain jane, black & white, no beating around the bush kinda girl...

I like to draw pictures, and I'm sorta good at that, but I have to be in the mood..and to draw and really define...you can't just do it on a whim, or at least I can't...

I like to do crafty stuff...I get into it for about an hour...then, I leave it behind..

The love of my life teases me about these things...its cute when he says stuff like, why do you want that? you won't want it a month from now...


I know he's right too...but still...I just don't like that part of me...

I had no follow through when it came to disciplining my kids because if I did punish them, like a grounding for something, 2 days later I (and conveniently they) would forget that I grounded them, and for that matter, I didn't know what I grounded them for...

When I say I want more, I can't trust myself...I'm impulsive, disorganized, forgetful, naive, goofy and flighty...

As hard as I work at work, I'm very lazy at home...I can sit in the chair all night thinking about all the stuff I need to be doing yet not ever trying to get up to do it..

Its a great thing that hunky doesn't care, cause if he were the type to be controlling...whew...he'd be alone!!

That phrase, "wanting more" just depresses me! I know I want more, I'll work 30-12 hr shifts in a row with no problem, I don't care about that...I do that just to get the things I think I need to have to meet the "having more" description..

But only if there was a way to set my mind to something and achieve it and appreciate it for the long term instead of just abandoning it shortly after I've obtained it...

Maybe that's the "more" I need to be wanting...
Maybe, just maybe I need to be thinking about wanting what I already have, maybe I need to want to be content in some areas...

But...That wouldn't be me now would it?? :)

Maybe, I'll just stick to wanting more time and more sleep and a maid to clean up my dusty home and more hours at work to make more money to buy the things I'll play with for a couple of hours and abandon in a month...

That's me, that's who I am!

kT